As a new parent you maybe wondering whether to get a sling or not to carry your baby around. There are many benefits to baby wearing and this article goes through some of the reasons why it is a good idea to own a sling.


1. Doctors and medical professionals all agree that infants are nurtured and excel through being touched. Carrying your baby in sling keeps your baby constantly touching you and this can be very soothing and nurturing. The baby can hear your heartbeat and is in tune with your movements helping regulate his/her own physical responses.

2. Less Crying - Babies who are carried in a baby sling carrier cry less (this is also true of babies who get to co-sleep as opposed to being in their own cot bed). This isn’t a surprise when one of the reasons that babies cry is because they want to be held and close to their mother. If they are already close then their is no need for them to cry and they can remain at peace. Knowing you are always there for them keeps them content. Studies have shown that crying can be reduced up to 50 percent!

3. Bonding – Carrying your baby in a sling is great for bonding, but not only for the mother but also father, grand parents and other family. The baby gets to be close to several different people and gets to hear their rhythms and heartbeat. This is a great way for family and caregivers to get to know a baby and bond to make baby happier!

4. Convenience – Babies, in the first few months, do not like to be set down. This can make life difficult and you feel like you can never get anything done. However if you have baby in a sling, not only do you avoid upsetting your child, but you also are hands free meaning you can get on with chores or anything else you gave planned. On top of this carrying your baby by sling is also convenient when out and about. Many parents struggle with getting pushchairs and prams into the car or on buses. With a sling you don’t have to worry about any of this.

5. Fitness - If you carry your baby everywhere you will get fitter. As your baby grows as well you will have more and more weight for resistance too. This can really help you stay in shape after baby is born and what mother doesn’t want to shed those pounds quickly?

6. Confidence – Most parents who carry their child in a sling find that they are more confident at knowing what their baby wants. Being continuously close to child gives you more opportunity to understand theirs cries and needs. This can only be a good thing.

Wearing your baby has many benefits, but the biggest one is that your baby is much happier as a result. Babies like to be close to someone so they know they are safe. They don’t know they are safe tucked up in a cot or basket, but they definitely do when they can hear your heartbeat and feel your warmth.

If you are considering using cloth diapers you may want to know how you should store them, wash them and dry them to get the best use out of them. There are different ways to do things and you will have to learn by experimenting but there are things you can take into account to decide. This article goes over storing diapers.

Initially, before washing your cloth diapers, you will need somewhere to store them out of the way. Most people use a bucket with a lid. It is very easy to get a cheap bin for this purpose and don’t be suckered into buying a bucket specifically “designed” for diapers as these are usually well overpriced and a bucket with lid will just do the same thing and be cheaper.

Now to make life easier you may want to put a net bag in the bin so that when you transport the nappies to the washing machine all you have to do is move the bag over, instead of picking up dirty diapers one by one. A bag can also be great to use in the washing machine as it can prevent diapers from getting caught up together.

You can also stop the bin smelling or make it less of a nose issue by taping a cotton wool but to the lid with a few drops of lavender oil or tee tree oil (anti-bacterial).

Besides this there one more issue to contend with: wet or dry pail?

Dry pailing simply means putting your diapers in the bin where as wet pailing means putting them in a bin full of water to soak. Many people claim that wet pailing is better for stains, although from experience I didn’t see much difference. Wet pailing means that you will have more work too. You will have to change the water daily and it can be quite a nuisance.

With wet pailing you can add tea tree oil to the water as an anti-bacterial.

Dry pailing is much easier. You just put the diapers in the bin and leave them until you have enough to justify a wash load.

Generally whether you choose dry or wet pail, I think it is more a case of preference than anything else. You may find that wet pailing will help with stains and give your diapers a pre-wash or you may not care about stains or pre washing and leave it all up to the washing machine. Remember also that you can get really good stain removers so wet pailing isn’t as necessary as before.

Colic can be very stressful and many babies experience it. There is little evidence or research to indicate what exactly causes it but there are some things you can do, while at other times there isn’t much you can do by cuddle your child and let them work it out. This article goes over some tips to help you cope.


First of all before going through some tips, it is really important that you understand that sometimes you just can’t do anything to help soothe your baby. This is scary and very stressful, I know! There were moments when my son was first born when I just felt helpless and felt like I was a terrible parent. But I wasn’t – these things just can’t always be worked out by the parent, sometimes you just have to let your child scream it out and be there to hold them. So remember, if nothing works, just holding your child, accepting the circumstance and letting them work through it in your loving arms is enough.

Besides knowing this there are a few things you can help your child with. Sometimes babies get trapped wind that can take forever to come up. I found this out when I decided to use a sling to take my son for a long walk. After 45 minutes of walking he suddenly burped and was completely fine after that. But before that moment, every time I stopped walking he would get upset. I was extremely shocked when he burped and couldn’t believe that’s what the cause was and why it took so long, but it did! So my first tip is to get a sling.

Walking is a very effective way of calming your child down but using a sling is much better for baby because it will help calm them down more effectively than walking them in a pushchair. Babies want to be close to their mother. When they can feel their mothers warmth and hear their mother’s heart rate they will be instantly soothed in most cases. A sling can keep your baby close and movement will help calm baby down also. Sometimes fresh air and getting out the house can work wonders on your baby and sometimes you just need it for yourself. Parenting can be stressful, especially if it is your first time.

Another tip is baby massage or moving your baby’s legs. Lay your baby down and move their legs in a cycle motion or one up and down one at a time. This isn’t always effective but can help relieve trapped wind.

Sometimes we feel at a lost what to do as we don’t know what is wrong but sometimes it can be really obvious! I remember one time my son was really upset and it wasn’t until a long while after I realized he was teething. I started rubbing his gums and he was fine. He wasn’t very old then so I didn’t think about his teeth but it was obvious once I finally worked it out.

Exhaust everything, but try to remember that sometimes there isn’t always an answer. Colic isn’t nice for mother or baby but it can be helped.

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A common warning among the Western world, when it comes to children and babies, is that if you attend to readily to your child’s needs you will spoil them and turn them into clingy needy children. People believe that giving too much attention, nursing on demand and cosleeping can all contribute to spoiling your baby and that a baby needs to learn how to comfort themselves as soon as possible by using inanimate objects such as pacifiers and blankets. Unfortunately though, if a child has to resort to using an inanimate object for comfort and love then it can lead to a lifelong fixation on a specific object.

On top of this, child-rearing experts and books on parenting often (the majority do) advise mothers to separate themselves form their young babies with dire consequences.

Despite what many people believe, you cannot spoil your child with too much love and support. In most cases children are spoiled by not receiving enough love. Children may become spoiled as a result of not getting enough love as they crave attention/affection because they didn’t receive it earlier on.

Babies and children need warm loving human interaction. Breastfeeding is a great for this as it offers both nutrition and comfort to a baby. When a mother breastfeeds on demand she gives her child security. They know they are loved and cared about. If more people had experienced the devoted attention of a mother who breastfeed, there would most likely be less need for therapists and many people would be secure and content in life.

But love doesn’t stop at night. When a baby is forced into a different room it can be traumatic. A baby doesn’t know they are safe and in a secure environment even if you do. The only way they know they are safe is by being close to their mother. When one places their child in another room they can awake frightened because they cannot feel their mother. This can go on night after night. A baby who sleeps with their mother knows they are safe because if they are aroused they can feel and hear their mother.

While many people believe that you can give a child too much attention and spoil them, I have to disagree. A baby needs constant attention, love and reassurance and should have it (a baby sling carrier can help!). As that baby grows they will need it less and less, but it needs to be on their terms. Without the fulfilment of their continuum concept, a baby will grow to feel like something is missing and crave the unconditional acceptance and love from their mother. This can lead to problems with other relationships and a sense of insecurity. A mother’s role is very important and she should trust her instincts as these are much more in tune with a baby’s needs then any expert who tells you you are spoiling.

Cloth diapers are better for the environment and can save you a lot of money. This article goes over issues surrounding washing and drying cloth diapers and things to consider.

Washing

Traditionally boil washing was the used to wash cloth diapers. This was considered the only way to kill bacteria and is still something many people do, however you can actually get away with washing diapers at 40 degrees. This, however, is not recommended when dealing with newborn babies and the first 6 weeks. In these weeks it is much better to stick to a 60 degree wash. After this time you can then wash at 40 degrees, although it may be a good idea to do a 60 degree wash every so often. Most wraps, however, can only be washed at 40 degrees so if you choose to do a 60 degree wash make sure your wraps aren’t in it!

You also have to consider what to use to wash them. You may be using cloth diapers because you don’t want chemicals near your baby’s skin and thus want to use something eco to wash them in. Eco-balls are a popular choice to use on clothing but from research, AI have discovered that eco balls are not a good choice for dealing with diapers. According to searches on google, eco balls can potentially damage the diapers.

There are many great eco detergents available but these can be expensive. A better way for you, if you want to save more money, is to use soap nuts. These are placed in a cotton bag and then put in your machine. These are a great way to clean diapers. White vinegar can also be used to help neutralize smells and you can also use tee tree oil for its anti-bacterial properties.

Drying

If you have a concern for stains your best bet will be to dry your diapers outside in sunshine. Sunshine will naturally bleach your diapers and will also deodorize them. If you decide on using a tumble drier be careful as a drier will shorten the lifespan of your diapers. I have found that my cotton diapers have fallen apart fairly quickly as a result of using a drier often and I have had to replace ties often. However I found a drier important because it was the only way I could get them to be soft and also I live in the UK and the weather is never good enough to dry my diapers quickly.

If you have problems with getting your diapers soft but don’t want the drier to damage them, you could compromise and half dry them on the line and then put them in the drier for a shorter period of time. Also don’t be tempted to use fabric conditioner to soften nappies as fabric conditioner reduces absorbency.

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There are so many decisions that you have to make as a parent including the diapers your child wears. Some people choose not to think too much about diapers, while others see it as an important decision. Whether you opt for cloth or disposable the decision can be daunting.

There are many reasons why cloth diapers can be a great choice. If you can afford the initial investment, cloth can save you a lot of money in the long run. This can be a very attractive reason for those on a light budget. You can also use the same diapers for the next child and the next, meaning that once you have made your initial investment you will not be paying anything more for a long long time!

Cloth diapers can also be great for your baby’s sensitive skin. Many families opt for cloth because their child has had an allergic reaction to disposables. Most disposables have chemicals in that can cause skin issues and many parents do not want these against their child’s skin in the first place. Of course there are eco-disposables on the market now to counterbalance this, but generally people use cloth to avoid them.

Another reason cloth can be a great option is because it isn’t wasteful like disposables are and can be much better for the environment. We tend to live in a disposable society. We have paper cups, paper plates, paper cutlery and many people want to get away from this wasteful way of living. Cloth diapers are a great way to do this as you aren’t helping to fill landfills with bags and bags of disposables.

Of course though there can be some obstacles to using cloth diapers. You may not want to use them because you don’t want to have to deal with the mess i.e. getting rid of the poo and washing them. However this isn’t as big a deal as you may think. When its your own baby you can do anything and it really isn’t a challenge. Cloth diapering is relatively easy despite what many say. All you have to do is chuck in some extra loads of washing a week.

Whether you are thinking of using cloth diapers or haven’t considered it, they are well worth researching and looking into. Cloth diapers can be really easy to use with all-in-ones that are exactly like a disposable apart from the disposable part. You may even want to opt to just using them at night, as cloth are much better at holding large quantities of fluid than disposables and you can stuff them to meet your baby’s night wetting habits. This way they are far less likely to leak than your disposables.

Do some research, get some samples and try it out – it won’t hurt to try.

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Attachment parenting is becoming more and more popular as parents want to do the right thing for their children. Attachment parenting is a type of parenting that describes a highly responsive and highly attentive style of caring for a child. Paediatrician William Sears and his wife first coined the term “attachment parenting”. Dr Sears has several parenting books that are popular in the parenting world.

This highly responsive and attentive style is considered to promote physical and emotional closeness between parent and child. It promotes this closeness through bonding, breastfeeding, cosleeping, slings and various other things.

Attachment parenting encourages the parent to hold their baby often in the first weeks of life. The first 6 months are considered the “in arms” phase and parents are encouraged to hold baby as often as possible. Closeness is important so things like using a sling to help keep baby close while you get on is encouraged and also cosleeping. Breastfeeding is also encouraged and seen as an important part of a baby’s development physically and emotionally.

Those who practise this style of parenting tend to learn from their baby by keeping them close to them and devoting lots of time and attention. Parents tend not to go by a clock or a schedule but look for signs from their child about their needs.

When a child cries they are responded to instantly. Attachment parenting does not advocate, “Cry it out” and believes that you can’t spoil your child from constantly responding. Responding to their baby’s cries every time allows a relationship of trust to be built and unnecessary suffering. A baby cries for a reason and it is an important survival tool.

Breastfeeding, of course, is another important aspect. Parents usually will practise extend breastfeeding too acknowledging the important of nurture and bonding as well as nutrition when it comes to nursing.

Along with breastfeeding, cosleeping (instead of using a cot bed) and baby sling carrier wearing, attachment parents tend to use gentle discipline that is age appropriate. For example parents may put breakables out of the way of a toddler, as it would be unrealistic to expect a baby to stop itself from reaching for objects they may find fascinating. Guidance, role modelling and gentle punishments as well as no discipline are things that attachment parents would use to deal with their children.

Of course not all advocates of attachment parenting will use all these different things but many do. This type of parenting is about knowing your baby and responding to them. It is about following your instincts as well and often many parenting styles can make a parent feel as though they are going against instinct because they are.

This type of parenting is a great way to relax and enjoy your child without feeling guilty or feeling like you are spoiling your child. It can be the best thing you do for you and your baby.  Sharing a bed, instead of putting your child in another room in a cot bed can allow you to be close day and night creating a stronger bond for  example.

Parenting is a difficult task and there are lots of things to consider. When to start solids is one of the those things you have to take into account, especially if you are a first time mother.


It seems these days many people are being advised to start solids as early as 4 months, but this isn’t a good idea for many reasons. First of all your baby’s digestive system needs time to grow and be able to cope with solids in the first place. Second of all babies do not really show an interest in solids until around 6 months and even at 6 months they do not have a huge interest in them. Even at 6 months, starting your child on solids 3 times a day maybe too much, but it is agreed but most experts that 6 months is the earliest you should start them.

When you start solids it is good to start with simple things and try not to introduce too much in one go. I gave my son mashed bananas, melons, sweet potato, and various other fruits to begin with. He kept trying different things but he never really had a “proper” meal until around 14 months when he suddenly became super interested in solids. Before this he liked to taste things and would on the odd occasion eat quite a bit. He loved holding bananas, peaches, plums etc when he was around 1 year old.

I was never in a rush to get him to eat though as he was still breastfed and I also didn’t see the point in forcing him when he showed me clearly that he just didn’t want to right then.

I think the best course for starting solids is to just let your child try things. If they want more give them more but you should try to take cues off of them. They know best when it comes to their digestive system and how much they can handle. Many people are anxious to let their children but it is the easiest way. The only difficulty to it is not letting what others think or say get to you or upset you. It can also make you feel a little panicked if you child isn’t eating much solid by 1 – my son wasn’t but I read lots of other people’s experiences and they were similar. My son soon got a massive appetite for solids around 14 months.

Following your child’s lead is easy, forcing your child to eat isn’t and sticking to a strict 3 meals a day regimen is hard work but work that is not necessary. Go with the flow and life will be easier. And contrary to popular belief, starting solids early will not get your baby to sleep in their cot bed for longer and earlier.

Babywearing ties into the type of parenting style referred to as attachment parenting. Babywearing involves holding baby close to you in a sling or wrap for the majority of the day, instead of laying baby down in a cot while one gets on doing things.


Essentially, babywearing and putting your child in a sling allows you to keep your baby close but be hands free to continue doing chores or work that you need to get on with. This becomes a win win situation; baby gets to be close to their mother and mummy gets to get on with what she needs to.

Unfortunately using a sling isn’t a common practise but in recent years is coming much more popular. Despite the increase in popularity in the Western world, the Western world still holds the viw that babies who are held or carried to often are being spoilt and this will result in a clingy child. The truth is, it is the other way around. Babies who are not held frequently are more likely to feel clingy and insecure and left in cot beds. Babies who are held often feel secure and safe. If they wake they feel the warmth and movement of their caregiver and this keeps them settled. A child who wakes to find themselves alone cries and panics. They don’t know that they are safe in a cot in a house. The only way that they know they are safe is by being with their mother or a caregiver.

The first 6 months tend to be the most crucial part of sling wearing. In fact this is considered the in-arms phased in which a baby should be carried all the time. Generally a child who is held more often tends to initiate separation earlier and is less likely to feel separation anxiety.

Babywearing and using a baby sling have many benefits. These include:

• It reduces crying and fussiness. Babies who are carried more, cry less because they feel safe, secure and warm.

• Carrying a baby can help you get in shape. Not only do you get a good cardio workout but you also get weight resistance too that increases over time at a rate you can easily handle.

• Wearing your baby enables you to pick up on cues and signals from your baby more quickly and easily. You are also right there to respond instead of waiting to hear your baby cry.

• Wearing your baby decreases stress hormones in the baby’s blood (as they aren’t crying as often and getting panicked by the lack of your presence) making for a content quiet baby.

• Babywearing helps babies fall asleep quickly and also sleep for longer and deeper. This is great for both you and baby.

• Using a sling also makes breastfeeding easy and discreet.

Using a sling with your baby is a great way to improve your bond and get the most of the first months of your child’s life. It is worth trying one out!

This page is intended to be a resource for toddler toys and toddler toy reviews to help you decide whether a toy is right for your child. We also try to source the best price for toddler toys too.

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Generally Amazon is a great place to get toddler toys for and can be much cheaper than other places on the web. However despite this, people still flock to their favourite choices including Toys-R-Us and even Tesco. Usually palces that are targetted for young children like Toys-R-Us may have a wider range of products, but don’t be fooled! It is worth checking out whether you can get from Amazon too. We have done this for you in our reviews.

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